• 24 Sep 2017 (Sunday)

The biggest challenges and problems we face will never be solved with comfortable conversations.

  • 23 Sep 2017 (Saturday)

You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.

  • 22 Sep 2017 (Friday)

True motivation can only be accomplished when the other person knows and, most importantly feels

  • 21 Sep 2017 (Thursday)

If you only walk on sunny days, you'll never reach your destination

  • 20 Sep 2017 (Wednesday)

Guru is someone who takes you on a journey from darkness to light, from ignorance to knowledge, from confusion to absolute clarity, from fear to total confidence, weakness to strength, from self-centred

  • 19 Sep 2017 (Tuesday)

Expect something wonderful to happen to you shortly. Keep this thought very close to your heart and thought process. Let every cell feel this every single moment.

  • 18 Sep 2017 (Monday)

Difference between Reacting and Responding.

Reacting is quick, fast, without thought. It is like unskilled driving.

Responding is well thought of thoughtful approach to handling challenging situations. It is like a skilful driving, where all passengers are safe.

  • 17 Sep 2017 (Sunday)

Until the time YOU & YOUR WORK operate like two different people, real long-term success shall remain a distant dream.

  • 16 Sep 2017 (Saturday)

Looking backwards in the past is right to review your journey till now but looking forward to the future fills you with new fresh, positive energy, and you get many more reasons to live this big life which is waiting outside of past and present into future.

  • 15 Sep 2017 (Friday)

What is better whether being organised, systematic or disorganised having an unstructured approach to everything?

There is a constant battle between organised and disorganised people in the way they look at actions around them.

  • 14 Sep 2017 (Thursday)

Foundation of positive discipline is to be gentle but firm on your stand for the desired outcome. There is always this debate on how should we behave with people around us in personal life and workplace.

  • 13 Sep 2017 (Wednesday)

Real satisfaction comes from letting go of your small-minded, conservative thought process and allows your heart, mind and soul to expand limitlessly.

  • 12 Sep 2017 (Tuesday)

Your soul always knows what is right, but your ever chattering mind becomes the biggest stumbling block to take you closer to your soul where real you reside.

  • 11 Sep 2017 (Monday)

Our Smile increases our face value.Let us use it as much as possible. Sometimes we are surprisingly calculative about our smile as if we are giving away our property.

  • 10 Sep 2017 (Sunday)

What saves your day is not leaving what you have in your capacity to turn the table for huge success.

There are times when you feel like giving up, but these are also the times of great awakening in what you want to achieve.

  • 09 Sep 2017 (Saturday)

Work very hard in silence. Your work will do all the talking.

Working hard in silence is no less than any other form of devotion.

The intensity of silent hard work help concentrates all your raw energy for sure short target achievements.

  • 08 Sep 2017 (Friday)

Your friends are the reflection of who you are and what you like.And it also indicates the kind of friendship wealth you have generated.

  • 07 Sep 2017 (Thursday)

If you notice closely, your mind always likes to resonate with truth. That is why whether you are truthful or not you would always like the company of a truthful person.

  • 06 Sep 2017 (Wednesday)

BODY remains healthy when it is active, but MIND remains healthy when it is stable.

  • 05 Sep 2017 (Tuesday)

You always have two options in any relationship ,either to conquer the person or embrace the person.

Conquering someone envolves onesided self-centred approach where you look at the person more as an object of your objective.But in case of embrace, you look at the comfort of others first.

  • 04 Sep 2017 (Monday)

What a great feeling when you are in complete control over your thoughts, emotions and response to various personal and professional situations.

  • 03 Sep 2017 (Sunday)

Without purpose, your job kills you every moment and becomes a burden and in business, without purpose, you make business only an object of fulfilling your personal needs which will not help you create an institution.

  • 02 Sep 2017 (Saturday)

The best service you can give to someone is to uplift his or her mental state.

Mental state and motivation are interlinked. If the mental state is full of energy, it shall reflect in all your actions.

  • 01 Sep 2017 (Friday)

The best way to get out of lethargy and to motivate your mind, body and soul is to stop talking and start doing.

Your first step, the second step will eventually lead to final step taking you very near to the goals you have always dreamt about. 

  • 31 Aug 2017 (Thursday)

Dreaming with complete awareness is the only way to achieve your dreams.

In the absence of complete awareness, the dream will remain a distant dream.

  • 30 Aug 2017 (Wednesday)

Do not blame anyone except yourself for not being able achieving your GOALS.

It has now become the latest fashion or a trend to blame anything and everything plus anyone and everyone for either not having a goal or not been able to achieve one.

  • 29 Aug 2017 (Tuesday )

Poor is one who does not have dreams. Dreams give you a new lease of life and an extremely optimistic outlook towards life. Dreams give you reasons to get out of bed every single day and look into the eyes of life with direct connect.

  • 28 Aug 2017 (Monday)

Never discourage or demotivate anyone even if the progress is very slow.

Success with superior talent is no big deal, but if it is done through average talent, it is a great achievement.

As everyone is not the same with superior skills and capabilities, the outcome is bound to be different for people who have a slow start.

But if someone has right intent and has action and improvement driven mindset and attitude,

 IT GOES A LONG WAY.

  • 05 May 2017 (Tuesday)

Wisdom is at deeper level is a healed 
Pain.

Sometimes you are wiser because you have gone
through a phase when wisdom was just not willing to meet you.

Now wisdom is very much part of you and you know the value of it like never before.

Be wise. Enjoy life.

  • 04 May 2017 (Friday)

Without Enthusiasm life is lifeless.

When you start anything be it engaging in any activity or people, the quality and outcome of that depend on the level of your enthusiasm.

The mere touch of enthusiasm can create magic with even the smallest activity or action you undertake.

So it is not an activity but the spark of enthusiasm that shall transform what comes out as an end result.

So let us live the life full of enthusiasm without even a single dull moment. Think...What you can do to create huge enthusiasm in all aspects of life.

  • 28 Apr 2017 (Tuesday)

If you react to people, life reacts on you with full velocity without giving you any chance. CHOOSE your word and actions very carefully as your few encouraging words and actions can do the miracle for someone and same way your reactions can damage someone's self-esteem and confidence permanent.

No one has the right to do so.

  • 24 Apr 2017 (Monday)

Keep counting your blessings. To your surprise, the list just does not end.

Do not focus too much on what you do not have but keep a focus on what you.

This simple idea can give you a huge peace of mind and a fresh lease of life.

Keep your motivation at the highest level always and keep receiving lots of blessings.

  • 23 Apr 2017 (Sunday)

READ, READ, READ & CONTINUE READING TILL YOUR LAST BREATHE.

What better way to celebrate world book day. Just promote READING to more and more people as the habit of READING is slowly going away specifically in kids.

Through READING you can tap into the thoughts of MANY thought leaders.

I always gift a book to all my near and dear one. Even if they READ the book after a couple of years it shall have the impact to transform you.

Keep READING, encourage READING.

  • 22 Apr 2017 (Saturday)

We all gravitate towards our dominant thoughts all the times.

Check right now what kind of thoughts your mind space is occupying.

Be careful if your dominant thoughts are draining your energy. Go for only and only dominant thoughts which fill each and every cell of your being with never say dying hope, a brighter tomorrow.

Make it a practice to check your dominant thoughts every one hour to calibrate thoughts in the desired direction.

  • 21 Apr 2017 (Friday)

DEMAND DISTOYS LOVE.

How true it is that the biggest of all culprit in the way of your unconditional love for someone is demanding love.

Demanding love, in fact, is demeaning love.

Love is the purest of all emotions and feelings.

But once you take a love of someone for granted. You are in for huge trouble.

To love someone, you need not take other persons permission.

Loving someone could be the best of all experiences you had till now. Please check are we genuinely loving or it is just attraction and infatuation.

  • 20 Apr 2017 (Thursday)

Never judge someone by the opinion of others as he or she May be looking at a situation from his or her perspective or eyes.

Sometimes we commit blunders of a lifetime being judgemental about a person or a situation.

Being objective need holistic perspective about everything which comes with keen observations about

People and situations plus genuine concern for others interest.

  • 19 Apr 2017 (Wednesday)

You are the reflection of your goals.

If you analyze yourself from a distance, you know that you have come a long way from where you started.

What you have become is the outcome of all the small goals you have achieved till now.

So you and goals are twin brothers, inseparable.

Make goals part of your every activity. Think with all intensity passionately about your goals. Make goals your best friend.

  • 18 Apr 2017 (Tuesday)

Whoever you are. Where ever you are. Whatever you are doing. However, you are doing it. Be 100% with the current moment as this moment can bring any unexpected magic in your life. Keep believing that there is something very good is waiting to happen.

 

  • 16 Apr 2017 (Sunday)

Take a long jump in your confidence, yes long jump.

How long we befriend slow moving pace for what we are meant to do.

Intensify your play and March toward the objective crushing on the way all your difficulties.

That is the way forward to be able to achieve what you have been waiting and wanting to achieve.

 

  • 15 Apr 2017 (Saturday)

You still have a choice to write next chapter of Life thoughtfully. All your past chapters cannot be changed.

Be sensitive to what you think and write as every previous chapter of your life is linked to what could be next logical one.

 

  • 14 Apr 2017 (Friday )

Commit to commitment, without which your life shall continue to bring negative surprises and any amount of blaming people or circumstances is not going help.

So be a man of your words and commitment.

Sensitivity to this simple quality in human life

Transforms the outcome and success YOU are looking for.

 

  • 13 Apr 2017 (Thursday )

A writer’s life is all about constantly observing, learning and engaging with the whole process of writing intellectually. The writer is either writing or thinking.

Writers life and life itself as many similarities, both of them need you give part of your heart and soul. It also calls for huge passion for reading and writing.

Writer seeks time and space without day to day hustle and bustle. Given right kind of surrounding writer comes out with exceptional work.

  • 12 Apr 2017 (Wednesday)

Be the best-selling author of your life.

Decide the story, work on the content and keep

Working on the various chapters.

 

  • 11 Apr 2017 (Tuesday)

If you react to people, life reacts on you with full velocity without giving you any chance. CHOOSE your word and actions very carefully as your few encouraging words and actions can do the miracle for someone and same way your reactions can damage someone's self-esteem and confidence permanent.

No one has the right to do so.

 

  • 10 Apr 2017 (Monday)

Am unique and you are unique.

Yes nobody is less than anybody but one is simply unique.

So You are You. I am I.

Bottomline is done not compare yourself with anyone as no 2 people have same fingerprint or life situations.

Let us celebrate and respect the uniqueness of everyone as that is the charm of being unique.

 

  • 09 Apr 2017 (Sunday)

Once something touches your heart all efforts drop, you and anything you do become effortless.

Do things that touch you and touches you at the deepest emotional level as after that never once you need to push yourself. Your heart takes you to

I have closely observed in personal, professional and social life and have conclusively arrived at a view that it very important to engage with everyone and everything as far as possible through your heart centre.

Emotions bind you and also free you.

  • 07 Apr 2017 (Thursday)

Best Recruitment strategies and best recruiters are RELIGIOUS ORGANISATIONS?

While writing my upcoming book SOCIAL RECRUITERS, when I started researching more about how religious organizations Hire people, retain them for life with minimum financial reward and last but not the least are able to develop highly motivated workforce who can die for the organization.

We can learn a number of lessons on best hiring practices from religious organizations. A lot of religious organizations are better than large companies.

This just got me too excited to know more about various sects, religious and spiritual organizations hiring methodology which is so unique.

After going through it I can tell you with complete confidence that Religious organizations are the best in hiring and retaining people with zero level Attrition.

  • 06 Apr 2017 (Friday )

If we have in the world 100 problems, we also have 200 SOLUTIONS waiting for you, you just have to keep yourself open and must have the deadly focus on solutions.

Just think it over and not allow life battles be lost without a serious fight given to life itself.

Our problems are tiny compared to others.

  • 05 Apr 2017 (Wednesday)

Essence of analytical thinking can not be understood with only superficial logical

Dimension.

A lot of your answers can be understood only after going beyond logic as logic is only able to capture things is parts not in full.

  • 04 Apr 2017 (Tuesday)

CREATIVITY HAS NO BENCHMARK.

Deeper level analysis can tell you that you cannot benchmark creativity with anything else

as no one's creativity can be compared with others.

Creativity operates from heart and emotional centre which flows with creative energy which

is an invisible power.

Creativity is opposite to logic. Logic always looks for special, visible and tangible answers.

No wonder we have limited number of people inclined towards creative pursuit or career.

  • 03 Apr 2017 (Monday)

DEAR MUTUAL BENEFIT,

I really appreciate your contribution to human life and society at large as you are the single most reason because of which most of the people remain connected. It is a great thing as mutual benefit sometimes turn into mutual admiration and that has the potential to transform that relationship into lifelong meaningful relationship.

So it does not matter how and for what we got connected. The most important thing is that it acts as a binding force.

 

  • 02 Apr 2017 (Sunday)

For a change meet yourself at least every weekend. Your lovely and loving self is waiting for you.

In a crazy world of far crazier work engagement, we simply forget that we do exist

as beings.

Diving deep inside your own self gives you insights which no amount of daily experience

Can give you as all your experience is borrowed mostly.

Yes, you are not just body or mind but a pure and peaceful soul which always tells you what is good and right for you.

Start writing your life journal every day. This one small step can transform your life completely and permanently.

  • 31 Mar 2017 (Friday)

Today is a financial closing day for all businesses. Every year with financial closing

You move ahead and look forward to fresh business, fresh approach to doing business with bigger and better targets.

Why do we do so? There is a big life lesson which one can draw from it that some were you

Have to settle all your past accounts with people to whom you have not been nice, close all negatives, close hurt, and anger, close and forgive everyone and start a new journey.

Get into new financial year to win the heart and mind of everyone associated with you.

  • 30 Mar 2017 (Thursday)

It is just the beginning of your journey, many more milestones to achieve. Many more stumbling blocks to be cleared.

Enjoying the journey is the most powerful and intelligent choice you can have. Go for it and make yourself count.

Sometimes the journey is more interesting than the destination.

  • 29 Mar 2017 (Thursday)

 Your biggest love story starts with yourself. Before you love someone, start loving yourself.

If you start loving yourself irrespective of how you look, what people think of you and what you have achieved compare to others, then something magical happens. It simply transforms your whole self completely and permanently with spotless perfection.

It is well said the SELF ESTEEM is key to what shall happen to you TODAY, TOMORROW AND DAY AFTER.

So never put yourself down in your own eyes. Respect your whole being. Be sure god has not created someone else like you. You are special and unique and shall remain so till you exist.

  • 28 Mar 2017 (Wednesday)

Have you ever listed all the blessings you have got in this life or in other words count your blessings?

You are just amazed once you start writing. The list of blessings it just gets bigger and bigger.

Yes, it is true that no one's life is picture perfect but you find in most cases always blessings outnumber problems, issues, and trouble without exception if we look a life objectively.

So it is another big idea to remain rooted and objective with what we have been blessed and offered by your lovely life.

  • 27 Mar 2017 (Monday)

No matter where ever you are in life and what you are doing currently, there is always a big and bright future waiting for you. Just let this thought flow in your blood stream and become

Part of you 100%.

I have personally benefited from this very thought for most of my professional career wherein I have never allowed negative part of me to get strong.

This is one of the tools of training your mind for sure short success through "self-affirmation"/

Do not allow negative part of you to take advantage when your chips are down. Always water positive side of you to dance within for something really big and meaningful.

Life is waiting to unfold a lot of positives for you. Just wait for your good time to start.

  • 25 Mar 2017 (Saturday)

Be so focused on performance that no one can ignore you. Let your performance do all the talking. Performance is the raw material of big success.

For some Performance is something which needs lot of efforts but for some performance is just part of their DNA or is the mindset through which he or she operates.

  • 24 Mar 2017 (Friday)

Ignoring performance review shall not only impact your today but also tomorrow and day after. This shall every day make your journey to

Success longer and longer.

So stop every day once and review whether you are on right track or not.

  • 23 Mar 2017 (Thursday)

Meaningful and thoughtful silence is one hundred times better than meaningless, illogical and unnecessary arguments.

Beware of spending even a moment on arguments as it is not less than someone trying to rob you of biggest of all treasure that is PEACE OF MIND which has been the eternal quest of all human beings.

  • 22 Mar 2017 (Wednesday)

Plan to make your tomorrow the best day and start getting into that frame of mind from this moment. Start feeling the wave of positive emotions and energy filling your whole being.

Look forward to a big day ahead tomorrow. Go to sleep with this thought.

Repeat this exercise every single day as a ritual.

  • 20 Mar 2017 (Monday)

Keep rejuvenating your mind, thoughts, emotions, body and soul to fill yourself with next level of inner, deeper and deepest level of long lasting growth-oriented life changing impact.

 

  • 18 Mar 2017 (Saturday)

Is there any perfect answer to various aspects of life and relationships or the very question is a big illusion or this question itself is imperfect or partially imperfect.

So the whole efforts of finding the perfect answer, perfect life, perfect relationships, perfect work, a perfect solution are one big futile exercise.

What at the best you can expect is partially perfect and partially imperfect everything and be happy with it or else get a completely imperfect everything.

So life is not in start or end but in the journey and balance.

  • 13 Mar 2017 (Monday)

Biggest of all festival is the festival of your life itself.

If you start looking at life as big festival, you start living life to its fullest.

Probably the concept of festivals started to teach us how to celebrate life but somehow this learning got restricted to festivals only.

Bottomline is celebrating life is the art and science of living where you are living life every single moment to its grandest dimension and making life a big festival like Holi which has all possible colors.

  • 12 Mar 2017 (Sunday)

Weekly fasting from mental chatter is a compulsion now with completely wired life with wireless all around us.

Go to inner space one a week and come back to the daily challenges with complete freshness like a new-born is a great idea which one should not ignore.

Probably this was the reason that the world over we have weekly off so that the charm of doing your work in hand remain interesting and meaningful for a long time.

  • 11 Mar 2017 (Saturday)

Time for perfect partnership is back in fashion.

When you look around you find slowly and firmly new age generations has started realizing

THE POWER of partnership and collaboration starting from school homework to collaboration in business and personal life plus any other aspects.

Today's election results again reinforced the deadly combination and partnership of Mr. Modi

and Mr. Amit shah and prove that if the strengths of two clear intentioned people join hand it only leads to pure magical outcomes and unbelievable results and performance.

Hence go out a find a partner who turn your weakness into huge strengths and you ensure that you come as a boon to your partner.

  • 06 Mar 2017 (Monday)

Habits are sometimes not so easy to change but not changing habit shall cost you so huge that the impact of ignoring it is felt sometimes life-long when people around you are in better place because of determined compliance of habits on an every single day basis.

  • 04 Mar 2017 (Saturday)

LIVE YOUR LIFE AS IF TODAY IS YOUR LAST DAY OF LIFE AND KEEP LEARNING AS IF YOU HAVE TIME FOREVER....

We come in this life with a budgeted timeline given by GOD. Hence killing a moment with things which are not taking you to meaningful direction is nothing short of a crime. Eliminate all actions and activities which are not important for your goals. You never know when our budgeted time of life come to abrupt end.

Yes, learning is a lifelong pursuit which has no limits or boundaries.

  • 03 Mar 2017 (Friday)

Best Investment is in knowledge, not money.

EVEN before 5000 years knowledge was driving the human race and made huge advances through history.

But in the current knowledge age, this drives every aspect of life and if you are not investing in it you lag behind with wide margin.

Top 5 global companies are knowledge driven corporations.

So bet big on investing in knowledge.

  • 02 Mar 2017 (Thursday)

A bad system can destroy good people.

If as an organization you are not investing in systems, you have unknowingly started digging the grave of an organization. Same can even apply to personal dimension of a person.

It is not easy to change the way we operate or work. But change is the only constant factor. So the option of not wanting to change does not exist.

People are not bad, they want to contribute but if an organization fails to give a working model and a framework or a system, things go off track.

Bottomline is trying to structure every single aspect of work model for superior performance and outcome. It also helps in mental programming.

  • 01 Mar 2017 (Wednesday)

Mutual respect is the foundation of harmony in any relationship.

You are free to disagree without losing respect for another person.

The Central theme of all relationships is getting out of ego zone where profit and loss are just incidental not the only reason for engaging in it.

  • 28 Feb 2017 (Tuesday)

Most ignored aspects of partnership in any life areas are

The partnership is something very deep with far reaching impact on mind-body -soul (covers our complete composition as a person).

True partnership is all about combining the strength of two minds for the creative explosion.

True partnership is all about us, not me.

True partnership is all about sharing not being stuck on ego satisfying trip.

A true partnership can be that catalyst to some very big things which were waiting to be unleashed.

True partnership is always solution centric not problems centric.

True partnership is to embrace big challenges together.

True partnership takes you closer to your soul purpose.

True partnership is 100% expression of unconditional confidence on the other person.

True partnership is friendship for a common Objectives. It can turn friendship for life.

True partnership is 1+1 = 11

True partnership is not transactional in nature.

True partnership is also part of your destiny.

A true partnership can also be divine beyond a point.

True partnership is all about taking action not Reaction.

 

  • 27 Feb 2017 (Monday)

Change Leader & Follower age old outdated work model. It is so conventional that

It stinks.

Since morning this big idea stuck to me so deep that many thoughts around that are playing a cricket match on the pitch of my mind frame.

But do we have an alternative Work model? What about never thought before LEADER & LEADER MODEL.

In a Leader -Leader work model no one is a follower but you are turning the whole process of work into a leader making eco-system or a factory. A system which by design shall only churn out leaders, not followers.

To do so we must focus more on the context

Not on content.

Just imagine this one small shift can revolutionize the way leadership is looked at.

  • 26 Feb 2017 (Sunday)

Some people in our life come as pure blessings and some as big life lessons.

So do not regret if someone outsmarts you in the process of engaging with life. It is a high possibility but can give the wisdom to make us more mature in developing understanding and mechanism of people knowledge.

  • 23 Feb 2017 (Thursday)

Your precious TIME could be the biggest gift you can give to someone. GIVING YOUR TIME TO SOMEONE IS GIVING PART OF YOUR LIFE TO SOMEONE literally.

Spontaneous thoughts on something I read on time struck me today.

Give serious attention to this, if you are giving your precious time to someone you are literally giving that part of your precious life to that person.

So it takes you to another dimension of being very careful in terms of who is taking away the biggest gift of all that is TIME or a piece of your life.

We surely come with an expiry date in this life as no one is immortal so be careful with your time. Do not let it slip and value it as the most precious gift. Share this gift with each one whom you care.

  • 22 Feb 2017 (Wednesday)

CAN YOU BE HONEST AND BE VERY RICH AT THE SAME TIME?

I was talking to someone today debating this dimension of life. The other person did have confusion on this.

Let me share what I deeply think about it with my experience and also observing people around.

Personally, my experience says of 20+ years of a professional career and last 7 years of running a business, we from day 1 focused on uncompromising ethical dealings with people internally and also with clients. We went to the extent of not giving anything as a gift to clients to get business which is more or less an industry practice. So we did not spend a penny to get business but still, we are All India leaders in our business space. We have ZERO turnovers of people leaving us. In 7 years we are Gujarat No.1 consulting company in terms of turnover.

I just wanted to show you with a personal example that yes indeed you can be VERY SUCCESSFUL, RICH following the path of ethical and honest dealings.

In fact, today when dishonesty and self-interest is the order of the day, everyone looks for someone who can be trusted.

In fact honestly can be your biggest USP and ensure that you stand out in a crowd of dishonest, causal, self-centric, shortcut driven, unethical people. And remember you can be very rich at the same time. That is my promise to you. Try it out.

  • 21 Feb 2017 (Tuesday)

Pitfalls of over information consumption.

As we are experiencing a flood of information or sometimes misinformation coming from each encounter and engagement with family, friends, society, profession, observation, experiment, experience or many more sources.

The real challenge is how to consume, structure, apply information in our life.

Another dimension is to stop this uninterrupted flow of information through a beautiful inner science call MEDITATION, here you are simply watching information without getting overtly engaged with it with complete peace and calm.

Just try this daily, the moment you start observing thoughts and information deeply, it just vanishes.

For a change weekly once just take information fasting to unburden the flow of information.

  • 19 Feb 2017 (Sunday)

If you have decided to succeed, even a big failure does not seem to impact the marathon you have decided to run.

You shall be haunted by life again and again with a reminder if you miss the bus of success which gives freedom to live a life of your choice.

Without success as defined by you, life remain

An incomplete and unfulfilled story waiting for a perfect ending.

  • 18 Feb 2017 (Saturday)

My perception vs. Your Perception

This has been the single most talked about a point since we exist as humans.

The seed of all issues, problem, conflicts, confusion and inactions is MY PERCEPTION IS RIGHT AND YOU ARE NOT UNDERSTANDING me.

We quite often hear these views like:

YOU ARE NOT APPRECIATING MY PERCEPTION.

MY PERCEPTION IS THAT.....

YOU JUST ARE NOT GETTING ME.

YOUR PERCEPTION IS WRONG...

WHAT IS THE DESIRED SOLUTION?

Be a good observer and observe things deeply

Listen to the other person in full, for god sake allow him to express his viewpoint.

Do not rush in forming opinions

Know the Why element of the view or perception the person.

Display maturity completely.

Go for facts and read the situation peacefully.

Engagement in communication with the other person.

Try to connect with the other person at the emotional level to break his or hers perception.

SO DROP PERCEPTION ELSE it has the potential to make your life very uncomfortable.

  • 16 Feb 2017 (Thursday)

Be assured of two big things which shall remain consistent and constant which you never need to chase -TRUE FRIENDS & TRUE LOVE.

Both these shall always give you soothing effect on your whole being in the mad rush of

TRANSACTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS which are more focused on "Profit & Loss" and self-serving interest.

Now transactional relationships are part of daily engagement across all life aspects. So you cannot avoid it.

But the good news is that still, you find that there are true relationships which survive the burst of current societal norms and withstand the trials and test of time.

Have picked up this thought as since morning this was a constant thought in my mind for various reasons.

I look around and find that I have the huge number of friends with whom my relationship has remained a constant even after many decades and going strong.

Surely I feel blessed to have some amazing friends and well-wishers. I consider this my biggest Asset which I am so happy and open to flaunt.

  • 15 Feb 2017 (Wednesday)

Business Partnership is essentially friendship with mutual goals and objectives.

Business Partnership is all about accommodating the views of another person with respect and consideration.

Business Partnership can change the landscape of whole business as you operate with fullness not lack.

RIGHT Business Partnership is crucial for business success.

CHOOSE your business partner carefully, this one decision can impact your whole career and life at large.

RIGHT Business Partnership is a catalyst OR a business more multiple.

In Business Partnership you are the custodian of the other partner's interest.

For lasting business relationship look at the interest of other partner’s interest first.

TRUST is the single most important element in the business partnership.

Business Partnership is driven by shared vision.

LIKE any other relationship, business partnership requires maturity, understanding, and patience as there could be weak moments where any one of them has to overcome it and act with complete wisdom.

  • 14 Feb 2017 (Tuesday)

Best engagement with life is through LOVE and LOVE alone.

Love is the purest form of human emotions where your mind center which is generally hyperactive takes a break and allows your heart center to take over. But surprisingly you enjoy this control by your heart wholeheartedly.

LOVE transcends all social, religious, personal boundary and takes you in a space, a place which you want to go back again and again.

LOVE teaches you to think less of you and more of others.

LOVE can create a heaven where the only subject is love and love alone.

  • 13 Feb 2017 (Monday)

Consistent efforts with clear intent give us consistent results and outcome.

It looks easy but being consistent in all aspects of human aspects starting from getting up early, discipline in activities, consistency in our actions, values, behavior, hard work, commitment or any other dimension is not so easy.

All great life stories with big achievements are a reflection of nothing but consistent actions which eventually creates the magic of unexpected positive outcomes.

  • 12 Feb 2017 (Sunday)

Go for minimalistic life which is now a big community across globe. Here are some of the choices a minimalist look for:

Minimalistic life is not about having less but about making room for what is absolutely necessary.

Simplicity is ultimate sophistication.

The less I need the better I feel.

Less stuff more life.

Do not go on a shopping spree and end up accumulating a majority of stuff you do not need and clutter home and office space.

Go for not more than top 2 things which are most important to you at this point and eliminate anything else which shall dilute your focus and hinder execution and outcome.

Only when you achieve these top priority objectives take a rest. Focus have deadly, cutting edge, full blown energy.

  • 11 Feb 2017 (Saturday)

Relationship with a generous, genuine, nice and open minded person is like sugarcane which even if you grind, crush, beat or do whatever you only and only get sweetness.

If ever you find such person in this lifetime or you already know someone like that, be great full to god and let that person be very important part of your life. Going forward you may get everything material you desire but true relationships come only to blessed one.

Value true relationships before life enter the last leg of its journey.

  • 10 Feb 2017 (Saturday)

As an entrepreneur the 1st and the 2nd target has to be finding a problem in the marketplace and then that problem should consume your whole being and passion should take you closer to be a solution and then converting it into a big success.

So keep looking for problems of clients and then converting it into BIG business opportunities.

  • 10 Feb 2017 (Friday)

How to eliminate the lack of focus on actions and activities?

Fix your calendar and specific schedule. Do not compromise on it any cost.

Fix a peaceful quiet comfort place and close the doors. Do not allow any disturbance.

Fix time to see emails and social engagements. Do not compromise on it

Fix your spontaneous impulses.

  • 09 Feb 2017 (Thursday)

My worldview VS. Your worldview.

Take a pause and think at a deeper level philosophically and you find since morning everyone is trying very hard to bring the other person in his world view directly or indirectly in the subtle or direct way.

Why does it happen?

Possible reasons could be ignoring completely or partially other person's perspective.

Or you are hell bent on bringing others forcefully in your plan with or without the permission of that person.

Or maybe you are not able to strike the balance in accommodating others worldview.

Respecting worldview of other person helps you connect with him at the deepest level. Sometimes it could be the starting point for a lifelong friendship.

  • 09 Feb 2017 (Thursday)

Be more focused than ever. BIG FOCUS!

Eliminate random thoughts, unnecessary web of thoughts, meaningless arguments, One-upmanship, thinking too much about yourself, showing something which you are not, getting stuck with silly small issues, unreasonable and unrealistic expectations from self and others, ignoring health, being overtly serious, operating too much from mind centre, getting into things mindlessly, having a short term and shortcut approach, not giving important to others views, ignoring financial health, unnecessary accumulation of what is not needed, being overtly possessive, shifting focus, eliminating indiscipline across daily activities and many more areas.

Bottom line is had single point agenda has to be hugely uncompromisingly focused one few key priorities of life and just eliminate everything that is not necessary for life.

  • 08 Feb 2017 (Tuesday)

You are total, You are full, do not underestimate yourself. You can move mountains.

Good news is that you have the seed inside you which is 100% going to turn into the full blown tree in times to come. The only differentiating factor is how you take care of the tree, how timely you water the tree and how much you take shall determine how fast the tree grows to mean that tree is no one else but YOU...YOU...YOU.

  • 07 Feb 2017 (Tuesday)

All men go out and make the day special for your women who could be YOUR mother, wife, daughter or colleagues at the office as you definitely owe your existence to women, you exist because of them. Always in past, present or future men shall exist because of you. Nothing around men is untouched by the touch of women. You are so special. Be proud to be women.

I have already taken my first step and given HOLIDAY on women's day tomorrow for all my female colleagues and also shall give days off to my wife at home and help my wife in household responsibilities.

Big cheers to Women power our real power.

  • 07 Feb 2017 (Tuesday)

Strong people do not put you down but lift you up.

Since everyone is at different stages or levels of understanding, skills, motivation, deep desire, evolution and experience, they would need hand holding till they do not come up to your expectation.

Create a culture of people taking others to next level leading to an energy wave lifting all only in the upwards trajectory.

  • 06 Feb 2017 (Monday)

The goal is a dream with a specific deadline else it remains a pipe dream. Putting your goals on paper ensures that you stay committed to it.

Without goals one is aimless, without aim is like one wants to drive a car without a car.

  • 05 Feb 2017 (Sunday)

ARE YOU DOING ENOUGH FOR SOMEONE SPECIAL IN YOUR LIFE?

It is a big life Learning to keep this in your mind that you can afford to ignore once in a while certain aspects of life but never once forget to do every possible thing in your capacity to make someone special happiest every single moment of togetherness. The special someone is God's beautiful way to reward you for good you have done in this or past life. What better way to experience God's grace than this.

  • 05 Feb 2017 (Saturday)

Set peace of mind as the 1st, 2nd and the biggest goal of your LIFE and organize your entire life objectives around that.

Peace of mind is the king of all goals. No goal is bigger than this as if it is missing all your other achievements would look blank and without meaning.

So what are you thinking, come back from your illusionary world which you have painstakingly designed for illusionary goals and objectives.

Demand god or the nature of profound wisdom to differentiate what is fake and what is real.

Go for the real and objective view of everything.

  • 04 Feb 2017 (Wednesday)

Focus moves mountains. And structured thoughtful goal oriented meaningful focus help ALL your dreams come true.

Think and decide which are the top 5 goals you want to focus on at this point in time. It could be for 1 year or 3 years or next 5 years.

Also to focus decide on what you do not want to focus that shall eliminate all possible distractions in life and make your life easy.

  • 03 Feb 2017 (Friday)

Your focus decides your outcome. STAY FOCUSED. Remain focused...Ignore all distractions. Focus channelizes your mind body and soul and ensure sure short results and outcome. With every challenge increase, the focus as distraction needs to be defeated at any cost to bring back everyone on the same platform called focus.

  • 02 Feb 2017 (Thursday)

The way to respect someone is to listen to the other person with complete attention and objectivity.

Respecting others is respecting being human.

Do not look at everything with the lens of self-interest alone as your interest is hidden in the interest of others in more ways than one.

  • 31 Jan 2017 (Tuesday)

Do not be very hard on yourself. Take things in your stride. For a change be easy on yourself once in a while as you are human not a machine and humans lucky have a heart which beats, a body which gives you a space to experience physical world and a soul which reminds you of who you really are.

  • 30 Jan 2017 (Monday)

Do not be disappointed if people do not respond to the way you respond as not everyone has the heart as you have.

Good luck to all heartless souls. May god give them wisdom at the earliest as they do not know they are missing the most precious thing in life.

Have heartfulness along with mindfulness.

  • 29 Jan 2017 (Sunday)

Life is like the sun which rises every single day without exception undeterred.

Similarly, after every problem, defeat, heartbreak, life-threatening events of life, just do not lose heart as life gives each one of us opportunities without exception according to our karma or our actions.

Like sun does not forget to come back every day, like that our life comes back to us with a reminder every day that still it has a lot to offer and life is going to be exciting. Demand from life the very best.

  • 28 Jan 2017 (Saturday)

YES, IT IS TIME TO ASSESS WHERE YOU ARE AND WHAT YOUR DEEPER DESIRES ARE AND WHAT YOU WANT TO BECOME.

Assess your key motivations, traits, skills, life vision, mission, deeper desires, top of the mind 5 thoughts, stages of financial freedom, who you are, who you want to become? why do you want to become what you want becoming? What is your outlook towards people around you? How do you deal with the complex web of ever increasing complexity of relationships? Do you stick to your value systems and ethics? Are you selfish or selfless? Are you organized or not? How do you deal with a crisis? Are you objective in assessing yourself? Are you creating value for yourself? Are you doing something to nourish your soul? Are you at peace with yourself? Are you centered? Do you make people happy where you go or people try to run away from you? Are you leaving your legacy which shall remain even after you leave this planet earth?

In short assess your IQ, EQ, SQ and 360-degree objective deeper level analysis.

Keep doing it on daily basis, keep expecting more from you. Demand a better you every day.

  • 27 Jan 2017 (Friday)

Work and religion have many similarities, the common major one is belief which goes beyond calculations of mind and logic.

Once you befriend belief you do not need any other thing.

  • 26 Jan 2017 (Thursday)

Writing is true freedom as you do not have following limitations:

1. One is not bound by established public opinion.

2. You need not follow anyone but can create a situation where you are followed.

3. You can be a thought leader without following thoughts of other thought leaders.

4. Can express your real you without any editing of your perspective.

5. Writing is a catharsis of the highest order.

6. Writing heals you deep down.

7. Writing documents all your thoughts for times to come.

8. One can live through one writing even beyond one's life.

9. Words have power beyond our imagination.

10. Keep writing and keep living in the hearts and mind of all.

  • 25 Jan 2017 (Wednesday)

Never regret a day or a moment in life as good days give you big happiness and bad days give you experience plus some much needed time-tested lessons for life. Both these aspects impact what you shall become going forward.

Too much of focus your past failures and weaknesses and focusing too much on what 1000 things can go wrong with you completely drain your positive energy and leave you completely clueless adding complications to already complicated life.

  • 24 Jan 2017 (Tuesday)

Do not be selfish as sooner or later it shall suffocate your whole being?

Beyond a point focusing on self alone is so meaningless and unworthy of being human.

It is really worth a review to see on which side of the fence one is, on the side of selfishness or focusing on the happiness of others.

BE THE MOST PEACEFUL SOUL YOU HAVE COME ACROSS IN THIS LIFE.

  • 23 Jan 2017 (Monday)

What you become is the result of what you do today.

Not surprising that each one of us looks for success and self-fulfillment but what very few people can define is how success happens to people.

Most people think that success is something god given or is the result of being at the right place at the right time or is something mystical.

Actually it the final outcome of what you do today, it is as simple as this.

So the bottom line is to just and just focuses on today as if past and future do not exist for you.

  • 22 Jan 2017 (Sunday)

Do not burn or ignore opportunities which are on hand today for some unknown imaginary opportunity.

So it is rightly said ONE IN HAND IS BETTER THAN TWO IN THE BUSH.

Instead of ignoring current opportunity intensify your current effort and engagement for sure short targeted defined success.

  • 20 Jan 2017 (Friday )


  • 19 Jan 2017 (Thursday)

Things can only change if you can change the way you design today.

DESIGNER HAS TO CHANGE THE DESIGN. AND THE DESIGNER IS "YOU"

With the old design, you cannot create something new.

Break your thoughts, actions and activity structure into small practice, workable models.

As every action of your today has a lifelong impact and implications.

Focus on changing each and every aspect of actions with freshness in approach and intent.

  • 18 Jan 2017 (Wednesday)

Do not allow negativity become self-fulfilling disasters.

As god turns your meaningful dreams into reality, similarly god shall not take much time to turn your negative thoughts into reality.

For a change take a break from self-limiting mind-set, fear of future.

  • 17 Jan 2017 (Tuesday)

All genuinely successful people are disruptive by nature.

Unlike crowd mind-set or majority way of looking at life configuration, successful people (not just material success but overall success ) deal with all aspects personal, professional, Social or spiritual in a whole new disruptive way.

There is always a way which may look unconventional from the outside but connects with all stakeholders across activities which was waiting to change the way crowd would not have anticipated.

This lead to permanent disruption in the way things happened for a betterment of all and a fresh path is laid down for future to follow.

  • 15 Jan 2017 (Sunday)

Do not compromise on your quota of sleep.

Recently a CEO of a company collapsed at a gym and died. Everyone was surprised as he was the fitness freak and was much disciplined. But later it was found that he use to sleep only 3 hours. Now latest research says that less than 6-hour sleep could be deadly for you.

So guys do not go to bed any baggage or stress of past and tomorrow. Sleep like a child. Just watch a child sleep. A child is not burdened with expectations or pressure of performance when he goes to sleep.

Before going to bed assure yourself tomorrow shall be the best for me.

  • 14 Jan 2017 (Saturday)

Leadership is about creating a platform of collective vision and objectives which lead to individual and organizations success without any conflict.

Leadership is about making the job of a leader redundant so the leader is always looking for his replacement and he keeps moving up the ladder.

Leadership is about either convincing the team or getting convinced by the team.

Leadership is about not looking for yes man but who has skills and talent.

Leadership and success are not same. As some time leaders succeed but do not lead well.

The leader should not only be genuine but should also be perceived like that.

Leaders do not look for only titles.

True leaders create the whole army of leaders which to my mind is real and true success OF A LEADER.

  • 12 Jan 2017 (Thursday)

Focus on happiness it multiplies. Focus on the pain it fills you with more pain or it also has a same more multiple effects.

The same thought is validated in GITA which says in one of the chapters that anything you focus comes alive or gets activated.

So the big secret from our ancient wisdom is

FOCUS...FOCUS & MORE FOCUS.

  • 11 Jan 2017 (Wednesday)

Do not mourn the death of a person but celebrate the life lived by the person.

Yes for some time it looks just impossible to control emotions as someone who was just around you is not to be seen again.

But life has more than one ways to take you out

Of difficult times and give you strength. Your survival instinct pulls you back to action and brings you again into the world of duties and responsibilities.

That is one more dimension of life which leaves traces on the story of your life.

  • 10 Jan 2017 (Monday)

Master the art of detailing for better decision making. The more superficial you are the more likelihood of you taking the wrong path.

Be the man or women of details. Have an eye for details for sure short long term success where you have a conviction of a winner from the day one.

The single most important quality of a man with detail is PATIENCE, do not rush as the world is not going anywhere.

  • 09 Jan 2017 (Sunday)

Be spontaneous but not be mindless. Use logic spontaneously with creativity.

Spontaneous thoughts with practical approach take you very long and save you from many long term disasters of life.

So take the middle path of balance risk in all aspects of life.

It is not a great idea to take a mindless risk because in that case, be sure to lose your peace of mind. I always believe that at the cost of peace of mind, each reward and success is meaningless and worthless.

Hence first and second priority is peace then everything else.

  • 07 Jan 2017 (Saturday)

Life is the game of choices. Every single day & every single moment, be ready to face a highly delicate choice of "What is right and what is wrong", "Whether to accept this or that" "whether to do this or that".

No wonder, because of the wrong choice at wrong times you allow your life to just drift in a negative direction.

But the good news is that you can come home from the world of wrong choices and negative dimensions of life and transform everything.

So, the bottom line is that if we are on the track of following our DHARMA (our duty) than dharma makes the whole decision making simple to where you focus on, what is right, what is wrong and "who is the person for whom you are taking the decision. This also makes life simpler and less complicated.

Reading the book "The difficulty of being good" by ex-CEO of Proctor and Gamble, Gurucharan das further get more subtle insights.

  • 04 Jan 2017 (Wednesday)

Decide whether you rule the day or day rules you.

In spite of all efforts, sometimes if a day is not moving the way you have planned because of multiple variables all of us have in our day to day life. Do not allow a day to overpower you, rather turn the day around in your favour.

  • 01 Jan 2017 (Wednesday )

All the experts of today were once upon a time just the beginners.

So do not get overwhelmed with an expertise of someone as you also have the same potential or seed in you to be the future expert or a leader in your chosen area.

Not to forget that expertise comes at a price of letting go of your comfort zone, working towards excellence every single day and moment. Also, passion, deepest desire and the highest level of interest are brothers and sisters in the journey of building expertise in your domain.

  • 27 Dec 2016 (Tuesday)

Have patience with your own self and others. Also fervently pray to god talking your heart out with him demanding nature to change things as they stand today and you grow in maturity and understanding.

Indeed it is not easy to have patience when you see so many stumbling blocks on the way to big success which you have envisioned.

So, the mantra is to keep finding and inventing more reasons to keep going with renewed never ending vigour and passion.

  • 26 Dec 2016 (Monday)

Setting priority in the mad rush of hyper activities and multiple focus and desires, this is one big challenge for anyone if one is into multiple activities and most of them seem equally important. But in reality with little review and focus, one can work out or structure activity or work model based on prioritized outcome.

  • 25 Dec 2016 (Sunday)

Choose what is meaningful for your life. Ignore and discard what is without meaning. Keep track of what is meaningful in the New Year.

  • 13 Dec 2016 (Tuesday)

No Pain No GAIN.

Unless you are born with a silver spoon which in any case happens only sometimes with some people.

Hence the bottom line is that for normal mortals like you and me, the formula for long lasting success and happiness is not to break down when the chips are down and things seem to just not go your way at all.

What seems painful today turn into sure shot blessings going forward.

So in every success, you have a story of pain which is generally the most neglected aspect of your success so embrace pain for long term gain. Do not look down on pain. Pain can be the starting point of complete life transformation.

  • 12 Dec 2016 (Monday)

YOU ARE MORE LIKELY TO SUCCEED IF YOU WRITE DOWN YOUR GOALS.

This is what all the researchers tell us. Generally, it is seen if you write down your goals then your mind assumes it to be something really serious and starts working on it with full force.

Even your daily plan or weekly plan or monthly or yearly plan must be in writing and then see the magic happening to you.

  • 08 Dec 2016 (Sunday)

ARE YOU ONE PERSON OR WITHIN YOU, YOU HAVE MANY PEOPLE.

Yes, seeing closely, it is so fascinating to know that in your different roles and situations we lose our real self and become temporarily someone else or in other words, we are different people at different times in different situations.

It is wise to spend at least an hour a day in seclusion to meet your own real, pure, original self and introspect. My Life Learning’s of 9th December 2016 (Friday)

BOREDOM IS IN OUR MIND ONLY.

When I closely observe everyone at home, office, and other places, one thing is common i.e. all of us at some stage to an extent get bored or saturated with activities or work in hand.

But things change dramatically and transformationally when you see a person meditating for long hours just sitting at one place without a blink and still feels blessed or another example could be a painter who just forgets days and nights to finish a painting.

So one sure short way to kill your boredom is to find purpose and involvement plus passion in any activity you undertake.

Actually, it is not an activity but the way you are looking at it transforms the whole dimension of that simple action and act.

  • 05 Dec 2016 (Thursday)

Helping others is helping yourself.

Try this and see the magic of law of nature working over the time to conspire with the whole universe to make things happen for you.

  • 05 Dec 2016 (Monday)

INHALE CONFIDENCE, EXHALE DOUBT AND NEGATIVITY.

Close your eyes slowly and observe your breath.

Keep observing it and slowly start inhaling CONFIDENCE, keep inhaling till the time you are full of positive energy with you and then with full intensity, exhale all doubts and negativity and start fresh like a child with enthusiasm and positivity.

  • 04 Dec 2016 (Sunday)

My best is yet to come. God gave me an intelligent mind, strong body, beautiful, pure & a peaceful soul.

This is a thought which I visit every day at least 2 times and have been following it now for good 30+ years, which one of my early spiritual masters had asked me to follow. I can clearly see the difference in how I view many things today.

This simple and effective prayer and affirmation which is good enough to change your DNA forever and you are no more the same after internalizing this single most important thought.

  • 02 Dec 2016 (Sunday)

Life is a onetime offer.

Yes, the real truth as we can live this life only once.

This very powerful big idea can change the way you look at it. This idea tells us how precious this life is. Let us make the best of it as this is one time offer

My Life Learning’s of 1st December (Thursday)

In the process of closely observing life I realize that from the very moment I really started understanding life, most of us have been really worrying about things that have least reasons to worry about.

Start deleting those thoughts that are no longer adding value or enriching our life in any way.

Value and live every moment respecting oneself and not get perturbed by the burden of thoughts which are not helping us move forward.

Personal dimension of marketing is using an understanding of people around you to make yourself more sensitive and impactful on people’s thought process positively.

  • 29 Nov 2016 (Tuesday)

SOMETIME HARDEST THING IS THE RIGHT THING.

Right things in life (Right actions, Right behavior, and Right deeds) at first need you to put in some extra effort but in the end, the outcome is real inner satisfaction, building trust and harmonious relationships.

So vote for what is right as that can give you the strength to conquer the heart and mind of anyone who comes in contact with you. Do right, Do good.

  • 28 Nov 2016 (Monday)

DIFFICULT ROADS LEADS TO BEAUTIFUL DESTINATIONS.

Yes, this has been my experience in workplace, personal and social life.

Difficulties only need time to get completely resolve. Have trust and have patience.

One has 2 choices, either succumb to short-term pain or HAVE patience for long term permanent gain.

  • 27 Nov 2016 (Sunday)

Unburden your negative past for lighting up a new fresh and brighter future where each and every moment fills the life with positive energy.

If we do not do that, we miss out an experience which makes life worth living.

As always, we always have 2 choices of everything in life. Vote for life which chooses positive.

An interesting fact is that every negative dimension has seed or potential to turn into a positive dimension.

BE THE WISE ONE.

  • 25 Nov 2016 (Friday)

Time has come to script story of a new age man.

With changing the landscape of our life, people, society and collective consciousness of people, now time is ripe for imagining of a life completely different from how we have been looking the at a script of a NEW AGE MAN is underway who would redefine how our life would look like.

Through my Trust (NGO) "NEW AGE SOCIETY" we have been working on this big idea for good 16 years to write a script or a framework around which you can structure your thoughts on a new age society and a new age man.

  • 24 Nov 2016 (Thursday)

Honesty cost you nothing but Dishonesty can cost you everything.

  • 23 Nov 2016 (Wednesday)

WINNING THE TRUST OF SOMEONE IS WINNING THE HEART OF A PERSON.

In the age of mistrust where it is very difficult to trust someone so easy but if you are able to win the trust of a person it is so rare and big. If YOU win the trust of someone that person is willing to give away everything he has, willingly WITHOUT blink.

Human life is worthless if people cannot trust you as the foundation of any relationship be it personal or professional is trust alone.

So if you are cheating someone be aware that you are cheating yourself only.

At some stage of your life, you realise that how important it is.

  • 22 Nov 2016 (Tuesday)

Can integrity and honestly be traded for short term gains?

No, in that case, one is part of the mass mindset of finding short cuts, the shortcut cannot take you on a long road of overall success. Shortcuts make the journey of success short-lived as you cannot change wrong to right.

EVEN After 5000 years of research on the social behavior and social mindset by intellectuals, and philosophers plus no amount of logic and arguments by all have been able to establish that that value of honesty and integrity has come down even a bit.

So the big idea is BE HONEST, INSPIRE OTHERS TO BE HONEST.

  • 07 Nov 2016 (Monday)

Life Coaching Series -

What is spiritual maturity? When can we claim to be a spiritually evolved individual?

To know spiritual maturity we need to research all aspects of spirituality and importance of it in living a complete life.

WHAT IS SPIRITUALITY?

It is an art and science of knowing life beyond mind and body as we are considered spirit or soul-being. We all know that there is something which our mind and body cannot conceive and understand. In short, it is soul science.

WHAT IS SPIRITUAL MATURITY?

•    When you look inside and not outside for life solutions.

•    When you believe that not everything is in your hand and what happens to life has multiple factors affecting the final outcome of things.

•    Actions are on your end but not outcome all the times.

•    Giving is in your hand not what you shall receive.

•    Not wasting a moment is an unnecessary argument on who is right and wrong as actually, both parties lose the battle of argument.

•    Life is not limited to what your 5 senses can experience, its dimensions are much beyond it.

•    Always find gaps in yourself, not others.

•    Do not allow your 5 senses to hear, touch, discuss etc. anything which makes you feel less human and does not help uplift your spirit.

•    Do and focus on things which transform your spirit to higher levels

•    Finding meaning in life and do something which makes your life more meaningful.

•    Make every moment of your life count.

•    Let go of things which drain your energy and focus on things which uplift whole life.

•    Focus on the welfare of others as that is what all human beings would like to do for real satisfaction.

•    As per soul sciences, the only soul is permanent and rest everything is temporary. If that is the case then it is intelligent to do things which please our soul not people.

•    Meditation is the doorway to spiritual maturity

 

  • 27 Oct 2016 (Thursday)

Problems and difficulties are sometimes just our opinions.

Most of us as individuals are so much loaded with huge opinion bank where we keep depositing on a daily basis more and more opinions about our personal, professional, Social and other aspects of life.

But surprisingly opinion may not be actual reality MOST OF THE TIME.

So beware of your own opinion making tendencies as most of the time our opinions block our mind and to large extent fail us in life battle.

Let us promise ourselves, not to join the growing army of opinion makers as life is not dependent on your or others opinions.

In reality, life flows beyond opinion.

  • 26 Oct 2016 (Wednesday)

Sharing knowledge is transforming life.

If you observe right since you were born, you at every stage of your life got someone who unconditionally and unselfishly shared knowledge which definitely helped you in shaping personal, professional, Social and spiritual understanding and helped you transform the way you think and act.

Sharing knowledge is equal to spreading light in the darkness of life.

Sharing knowledge helps you to be wiser.

  • 25 Oct 2016 (Tuesday)

Time is money.

Time is something which cannot come back even if you win the whole world.

The clock of time cannot be turned as it is slipping from your life every single moment.

So let us not misuse and abuse the precious treasure called time.

If you do not value time, time shall not value you.

Sharing knowledge gives you inner satisfaction which only a teacher can express when one sees that the knowledge shared with the student is transforming a life of the student which makes the life worth living for a teacher and the teacher is filled with joy without any limits.

Sharing knowledge expands your horizon of learning and also intellectually stimulates you to go to next level of knowledge.

Today, the world is the best place for knowledge seekers. World, companies, society and individuals are now in an age of knowledge-economy, even economics and individual success is driven by knowledge-economy.

  • 24 Oct 2016 (Monday)

LIFE IS LIKE A BOOK

Yes, indeed life is no less than a book with a specific story, different chapters, moving a link from one chapter to another chapter and finally also has an author.

Now we as humans luckily have a choice to write a story which is a best seller or also if not written putting your heart and soul can also turn into a big disaster.

In the end, a choice is ours to be sensible, authentic and investing yourself whole being in creating a creation which is worth your life.

BE THE BEST SELLING AUTHOR OF YOUR LIFE.

 

  • 22 Oct 2016 (Saturday)

Have you met the best person ye?

What an interesting question with such a profound multidimensional and deeper meaning. Yes, we meet so many people in our lifetime but a lot of people miss an appointment with oneself. Before it is too late take an appointment with yourself and talk to your inner self. Yes, you shall be surprised that you are the best person you were looking for. This tells you to value yourself, you are priceless, no other person can match you and No one has the same unique qualities which you have.

  • 20 Oct 2016 (Thursday)

Break the monotony, bring life back into your Life.

Today this is top on my thoughts that how do we break the monotony, boredom, getting tired of doing repetitive nature of work and activities. Yes when you look at everything around you, we find many ways in which we can break the monotony.

Some of the practical big ideas are:

1. Start looking at yourself more critically.

2. Try different approach in dealing with your work, people around you, situations around you.

3. Travel to new places.

4. Meet people who are just opposite of your nature.

5. Try new food joint.

6. Try colors which you have not tried.

7. For a change read book not of your interesting area.

8. Make a surprise visit to your friends and near and dear ones.

9. For a change be away from routine activities at least once a month.

10. Give surprise gift you someone who has not expected it.

11. Try songs which you have never tried.

12. Listen to your kids nonstop chatter.

  • 19 Oct 2016 (Friday)

Without Enthusiasm life is lifeless.

When you start anything be it engaging in any activity or people, the quality and outcome of that depend on the level of your enthusiasm.

The mere touch of enthusiasm can create magic with even the smallest activity or action you undertake.

So it is not an activity but the spark of enthusiasm that shall transform what comes out as an end result.

So let us live the life full of enthusiasm without even a single dull moment. Think...What you can do to create huge enthusiasm in all aspects of life.

  • 19 Oct 2016 (Wednesday)

HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE

How true it is from every possible perspective. Yes if you are married, a major part of life, activities, actions, emotions and motivation of doing something big depends on an understanding of each other. One thing is a fact everywhere that your life partner is your wife i.e. she is the other half your life.  Life would be dry and less meaningful without the unconditional support and genuine concerns your wife has for you. So whether you realize now or later, a wife is mostly the witness of husband’s evolution as a person and without her, you are not complete as a person.

  • 18 Oct 2016 (Monday)

Do not expect change from self and others overnight.

Yes, it is true that in one's enthusiasm of the moment one wants to conquer the world. But practically it is not possible to transform one's thought, belief system so easy.

So the ideal and practical way is to make the list of areas where you are falling short and you need improvement than taking tiny small steps daily.

I have experienced that YOU SEE MAGIC HAPPENING TO YOU with this small daily ritual.

Let us take small but firm and concrete steps every single day to transform yourself in 360 degrees.

  • 17 Oct 2016 (Monday)

Rise again, pick up a thread of life, crush your problems and rise again in life.

Life is indeed a battleground where many matches of life shall be played with your inner self and soul as your empire. Let us not allow life to be defeated under any circumstances but in the face of adversities your inner strength and power, you should only rise as you need to mobilize more inner resources to tackle life's challenges.

  • 15 Oct 2016 (Saturday)

Be smarter in dealing with one’s own web of emotions. It can make you or break you.

  • 14 Oct 2016 (Friday)

Be smarter in dealing with one’s own web of emotions. It can make you or break you. LIFE COACHING SERIES - Let love be the centre nervous system of your life.

We forgot but go back and you find that our life started with love between 2 people. So the seed of our life is from the beginning i.e. love. Once you come on earth, your parents, every near and dear ones had a love for us. In the school also we encounter friends with love only. Friendship carries a lot of love. Once you get married you again encounter love with wife and kids. Then again kid's kid fills your life with love. Also if you work of your choice, then again you have one more thing to love that is Loving work.

If I look around and see I find a lot of people who have already given love and many more people you can expect who in this lifetime shall share and spread the love.

Love is the FOUNDATION of LIFE or you can say LOVE IS LIFE. Accumulate lots of love not only money.

  • 13 Oct 2016 (Thursday)

Change your thoughts for a change.

We as individuals are a sum total of what we think of ourselves, family and society at large. Without realizing that we build certain thoughts based on our experience over a period of time. Sometimes unknowingly we become slaves of our thoughts. Actually, we should be the master of our thoughts not slave.

So over a period of time, I have observed that we must sometimes for a change, change the way we are looking at things that shall relax you a lot and shall bring back the same positive energy flowing into our system.

NAME OF THE GAME IS CHILL AND LET GO.

  • 27 Aug 2016 (Saturday)

Life is in this moment, here and now. If you really want to meet your good friend called life, it is right here in this moment. Do not waste your time anywhere else.

  • 26 Aug 2016 (Friday)

Thank god at least no one argues that we shall live on this planet forever. So let us live life to the fullest with acceptance as next moment one may not be there to argue about anything.

  • 25 Aug 2016 (Thursday)

Accepting your relationships unconditionally and giving everything you have unconditionally helps to be in complete peace and happiness with yourself, which is the ultimate objective of all your life goals and achievements.

  • 24 Aug 2016 (Wednesday)

No need to run away from your past memories as some of those sweet and touching memories of your childhood were friends who had unconditional love and affection for you.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Wednesday)

The dimension of passion.

It is mostly seen that any activity you undertake you always have some aspects of that work which is interesting and some part of the job not so exciting. What do we do in that case? The answer is giving your very best to every single action you undertake. Meaning giving your mind body soul 100% to everything, which shall not allow your mind to have any choice in terms of being partial to anything.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Thursday)

Being Mediocre is a sad choice?

This thought just does not sink into my system that a lot of people by choice are perfectly fine to be mediocre. Am sure that God has sent us on the planet earth not be remain mediocre. We have knowledge of many success stories of people who faced mountain like difficulties and struggle plus huge ups and down of ruthless life choose not to live life being a MEDIOCRE person.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Tuesday)

Insight on arguments.

What is an argument?

The argument is the process of giving a reason with evidence.

Why argument?

Most of us look at one’s own interest and to fulfill the desired outcome of what we want we argue to influence the decision of others.

What kind of people argue?

You have various kinds of argument maker. Some people argue for the sake of argument. Some people who are self-centred they argue to achieve the target they have set. some people have strong ideas and opinions about self, family, job, society etc. ?Since they are so loaded in their mind about how they see themselves and the world around themselves they end up every single time getting into an argument.

The value of argument?

If arguments are positive and helping others and self in giving clarity about life as a whole, Also positive argument influences each one to drive oneself intellectually to see a deeper meaning to things around you.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Friday)

WHAT IS PERFORMANCE AND IT'S MANY DIMENSIONS

As we all encounter in every single aspect of life, performance is the outcome of all our efforts and based on what we achieve we are called a performer or a non-performer. Let us get to the bottom of dictionary meaning of performance which definitely is not my perception but which shall set our understanding straight on it.

WHAT IS PERFORMANCE?

Performance is the outcome of activities which are evaluated in comparisons to standardize benchmark available at any given point of time. So your performance shall be evaluated with the best guy in your work area at given time.

HOW CRITICAL IS IT IN LIFE?

Performance is Very critical, as it is the source of our satisfaction, self-esteem and all achievement. It helps in a change of perception of others towards you. It gives you social status and respect which is life critical social need as a human being is a social creature and all these aspects help him view his own self positively.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Thursday)

Take Action here and now for creating future of your dream.

Future of dreams shall remain dreams if we miss out on the most life critical big idea which cannot be replaced or skipped or ignored, that big idea is "TAKING ACTION HERE & NOW".

We all are full of dreams and want those dreams to be fulfilled which is excellent and if you do not have a dream and you do not have something for which you are looking forward to in your life then it is nothing short of a crime of highest order.

To fulfill your dreams you must be clear what is your dream? What is the sacrifice and cost you are willing to pay in terms of time, energy, efforts and money.

The biggest problem most of us have is today dream and not taking bit by bit action every day. As we know time never comes back except you repenting.

So action and action becomes the keyword and also the key to achieving your dreams. Without dreams life is without spice and dreams need water of action to flower and give the joy of satisfaction of doing something worthwhile if you believe that life has to be lived well meaningfully.

My Life Learning of 28th September (Wednesday )

Business Partnership.

The moment you are talking about any partnership you are also talking about managing relationships, ego, a difference of opinion, sharing of profits, a rigidity of the thought process and a difference in the levels of motivation.

But another dimension of a partnership is big, huge and powerful. All great success stories stand on the foundation of partnership in sharing responsibilities which help in using the potential of each of the partners. In fact, two partners complement and complete each other.

Most of the big achievers and success stories are big because of businesses partnerships.

Since my company works on equal partnership business model I know for sure that in future all business would heavily depend on a partnership model.

In spite of all the shortcomings I am a big fan of business partnerships as I know, there cannot be a better way to use the power of different skill and individual creativity which shall always compliment and give that idea a powerful direction.

 

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Tuesday)

Purpose Driven Life

When you talk about what is the purpose of life in general or purpose of an individual, we get a whole range of views or perspectives from everyone. Some people say that we have come to earth with an agenda decided by God, some people say that it is the individual who decides the agenda of life. Some people go much beyond and say that life is not having a purpose and it is to be lived without any purpose meaning everyone has a different perspective.

But I think instead of going by what others say. It makes sense to have some purpose which is worth living for and which satisfy your inner craving for something meaningful.

Net it is really worth having a well-structured and meaningful goal.

Purpose also gives you a clear road map for how you want to manage your life and its goals.

Purpose gives your thinking a structure and makes the job of mind very easy to conceive and execute objectives with focus.

Purpose gives you one more reason to work.

Purpose motivates you for actions.

Purpose drives you with intense passion.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Monday)

NEW PERSPECTIVE TO BALANCE LIFE.

I think the whole idea of work-life balance is a much-hyped idea which has been losing its charm for some time.

In fact, if you are on a life mission or are working on a big goal driven by your passion, you cannot have balance in life because you start living every moment in focusing on that single moment.

So I have come to a definitive conclusion that this whole idea of balance is a mediocre guy who has small and basic goals of survival.

But if you want one to realize his or hers full potential then let us not talk about balance.

I have another unique model of life balance which let us give a name "Switch on switch off" model of life balance where 24 hours you are working in your head and at the same time you are also capable of switching to another activity seamlessly without any transition in time. In my personal case, I am always on the go but have the choice to switch off for a certain period and seamlessly move to another activity. So with this model of life, I feel that balance has to be in our mind rather than activities.

In this model, you have not fixed any slot for a specific activity instead without much effort move from one activity to another so easily and so happily.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Saturday)

SPIRITUAL HEALTH.

Spiritual health is directly connected to the higher purpose you have for life which is going beyond the ambit of family, society and worldly affairs. It is a dimension of life where one is looking for deeper meaning and purpose of ONE's existence.

In other words, one is looking for true happiness and true happiness comes when we grow in wisdom and understanding of who we are, what is the purpose of our life, are we moving in that direction. This also brings us to an understanding that one is not the personality, body or mind. Actually, you find your real self-ones you go beyond these aspects of life.

It makes sense in the Web of action and activities one takes time out and connects with one’s soul and prays to a higher power to bless us with unshakeable wisdom to sail through difficulties of life.

This is a powerful idea to spend exclusive time contemplating where we are, what we are doing and is it in line with one’s sole purpose and are we able to find your soul agenda.

As our body needs food, our mind needs intellectual satisfaction, similarly, our soul is hungry to find its final destination and we merge with the real goal of human life.

Qualities of a spiritual seeker are that his seeking is very sincere and efforts are very authentic and goal of seeking is single-minded.

Another quality of a true spiritual seeker is that because of his ability to operate without overtly getting attached to any negatives. He all the time operates from higher positive energy field with helps him live his life to the fullest where he can have satisfaction when he dies that this life he lived was worth living worthy for self and worthy for others.

So final conclusion is that your soul also needs food for spiritual health so do not deprive your soul of that need.

My learning of 23rd September (Friday)

BUSINESS PLANNING.

We Should Do Business with Business-like Approach or Human Approach

Business vision cannot be achieved without passionate human being with the specific goal in mind. Business goals can only be achieved through big client satisfaction. We exist in business because of and for clients.

No vision can see a light of the day unless people do not have ownership, commitment and Hugh faith in the vision.

It is people, who can take the business to greatness. Go and find such passionate human beings. Give your everything to find such people else this shall create a big gap in vision and outcome.

Business greatness needs a greater sacrifice. You get it with a price. But it is very fulfilling.

Business greatness is about dreaming your dream. You have just put yourself on fire in the flame of passion.

Business greatness lies in having a business goal which is bigger than you. Once you stand for something nature starts to follow your footsteps.

Become the kindest and the nicest person you know. Have a big heart. Operate with the balance of human touch and business objectives.

Let us have serious business goals with specific targets with a timeline.

Achieve business objectives taking everyone along with softer heart and mind aggression.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Tuesday)

LIFE COACHING - SOCIAL HEALTH (BIG SOCIAL HEALTH IDEAS)

Since the day you step into this world, not for a moment you are outside the realm of society. Since we live in middle of society we have no choice but to deal with it in a more effective way by learning social skills. Social skills are essential to get success in any aspect of life as for whether personal or professional your social skills shall determine the outcome of fulfilling relationships in the form of making and keeping friends. Also, ability supports others.

Some more exploring in the subject shall give you some interesting ideas to have more refined and clearer understanding of social health.

WHAT IS SOCIAL HEALTH?

Person's ability to successfully interact with others and building meaningful relationships.

It involves the way you get along with the people in life.

QUALITIES OF A SOCIALLY HEALTHY PERSON:

Treating others with respect, warmth, openness and are generally having trust on people.

HOW DO WE ACHIEVE OPTIMUM SOCIAL HEALTH?

1. Knowing one's strength

2. Ability to handle relationships conflicts

3. Facilitate and develop strong bonding and network with friends and family.

4. Be open for healthy discussion.

5. Develop an ability to listen, express them and form healthy attachments.

6. One must act in accordance with socially acceptable and responsible ways.

7. Try to fit into the mould of society.

8. Be positive and sincere to relationships.

9. Engage in social groups and circles.

10. Helping nature.

11. Do get involved in some social cause where you think less of self and more of others.


  • 30 Nov -0001 (Monday)

EMOTIONAL HEALTH (BIG EMOTIONAL HEALTH IDEAS)

Each one of has experienced a whole range of emotions from the time we were born till the time we are kids and under the umbrella of parental and family support, we are able to cope with normal emotional issues with little efforts. The problem starts when you go out into the world and you have to deal with all kinds of people and emotions which shall include your own emotions and the emotions of others. Sometimes we lack the deeper understanding of overall aspects of emotions and whether we qualify to be called emotionally healthy.

Let us explore it overall emotional dimensions to get deeper and clearer clarity:

WHAT ARE EMOTIONS?

It is a strong feeling deriving from one's circumstances, mood or relationship with others. Emotion is a complex psychological phenomenon which happens to human beings and animal.

TYPE OF EMOTIONS?

1. Primary - Your initial reaction which does not require thought or thinking.

2. Secondary - Reaction to primary emotions about your feelings.

WHAT IS EMOTIONAL HEALTH?

Emotions Health is about your feelings and thoughts. It is a reflection of how you feel about yourself and others, how to deal with day to day life issues. It is about our overall psychological wellbeing. It also includes quality of your relationship. You also have a lot of positive emotions and resilience.

HOW TO KNOW THAT ONE HAS POOR EMOTIONAL HEALTH?

1. Obsessed with self-ignoring others around you.

2. Insomnia. Sleep disorder.

3. Zero self-respect and lack of confidence.

4. Falling sick again and again.

5. Always feeling tired and feeling a lack of energy.

6. Difficulty in controlling anger.

HOW TO BE EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY?

1. Do not get stuck to negative, move on to positive aspects of life.

2. Stay in control.

3. Embrace change.

4. Know how to keep yourself and your family happy.

5. Live life here and now.

6. Accept responsibility.

7. Celebrate the success of others.

8. Accept failure.

9. Enjoy your own company.

10. Re-evaluate yourself be life.

11. Tolerate discomfort and people with whom your chemistry does not match.

12. Have a sense of belonging with family and close friends.

13. Have sense of purpose recognize that you are valuable and important as a person let's set and achieve goals.

14. Positive outlook towards life even in a case of issues.

15. Do not lose temper and have self-control.

16. Do not think of any past issues.

17. Do not feel uncomfortable with someone else's opinion.

18. Do not over think, it leads to sadness.

19. Remain positive at any cost.

20. Please smile, it is good for relationships and emotional health.

21. Kindness is free, have the big heart.

23. Do not quit in the game of life. You really fail when you quit.

24. What goes around comes around. Send positivity.

25. Laugh your heart out.

26. Practice Forgiveness it surely boosts your emotional health.

27. Be unselfish.

28. Appreciate and accept people wholeheartedly which is a sure sign of emotional intelligence.

29. Agree to disagree.

30. Exercise BOOSTS emotional health also.

31. Get out of a house and meet people.

32. Be thankful for everything you have.

33. Regular sun bath as some time lack of vitamin is also linked to emotional illness.

34. Delicate work

35. Find meaning and purpose in life.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Sunday)

LIFE PLANNING @ MENTAL HEALTH (BIG MENTAL HEALTH IDEAS)

When you review different dimensions of life to achieve what each one of us is knowingly or unknowingly looking for every single moment is to have 360-degree health and wellness (360 degree means health in Physical, Mental, Emotional, Social, Financial and spiritual all aspects).

Let us look up mental health holistically. Have been reading and researching what others have talked about and combining it with my personal experience of last many years gives me some life-transforming insights which I have already started following for long.

The Life Transformational Big Mental Health Ideas:

WHAT IS MENTAL HEALTH?

It is a state of wellbeing in which he or she realizes his or own abilities, is able to cope with normal stresses of life, can work regularly and productivity, and is able to make a contribution to a community.

VALUE OF MENTAL HEALTH

One person out of every 4 people are across the globe are suffering from mild to critical or advance stage of mental illnesses. The value of mental health can only be realized when you or anyone in your family or friends circle is suffering from it. Surprisingly people hide this fact or sometimes they do not realize it.

WHICH ARE THE MAJOR QUALITIES OF A MENTALLY HEALTHY PERSON:

They feel good about themselves.

They are emotionally stable

They have lasting and satisfying personal relationships.

They feel comfortable with others.

They can laugh at themselves and others.

They respect difference of options.

They accept failures with the positive spirit.

They are able to manage life crisis well.

They can make their own decisions.

They adjust to any new environment easily.

They feel and express the whole range of emotions they feel engaged with people and the world around.

WHEN DO WE WAKE UP TO THE ISSUES PROACTIVELY?

When you experience feeling lonely and low for a prolonged period of time and you are not able to find solutions. When we start getting upset for even the smallest thing or in smallest provocation pushes you to react, when we do not get sound sleep. You do not want to mix with people and society.

REASONS OF MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES

Some physical reasons (such as trauma, brain injury or drug abuse) can affect brain chemistry and contribute to mental illness. Poor physical health can also affect health. Inability to handle emotional aspects of life or work related issues can impact your mental health. Not been able to achieve your desired goal can also affect mental health. Sometimes personal, emotional and financial reasons can trigger mental illness.

MOST CRITICAL TOOL TO HANDLE MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES

The mind is the most powerful tool and technology which god has created. If mind the generator of problems then mind only has the answer to it. The mind is the biggest platform through which you can play the game of life very effectively and it shall take you through your entire crisis.

FASTEST AND THE QUICKEST WAY TO TRANSFORM YOUR MENTAL HEALTH ARE:

1. Review and audit your mental state at least ones a day, Morning or night.

2. Take time for yourself.

3. Build a positive relationship with all and you never know who shall from nowhere come and impact you mentally and emotionally.

4. Frist respect and value yourself. Do not judge your value by what view others have.

5. Take care of your physical well-being.

6. Set realistic goals. Do not over commit.

7. Relax your mind and emotions.

8. Take a break from the monotony and indulge in some hobbies.

9. Spend minimum 2 golden hours strictly with yourself where you and only you are allowed as this shall greatly help you to plan and strategies how to manage different aspects of health.

10. Start thinking more about others success that shall give you a very different high.

11. Do not hesitate to ask for help.

12. Send your ego on a very-very long holiday.

13. Have one single very big goal in life that shall ensure that you do not have time to get depressed. Live your passion.

14. Surround yourself with like-minded people who share similar interests, outlook towards life and increase the supply of positive energy.

15. Live life here and now, live every moment fully and completely as you do not know what is going to happen the very next moment.

16. Start writing your personal diary or journal. It helps to pin your emotions and your emotions get an outlet or channel to realize negative emotions.

17. Unconditional love to your near and dear ones.

18. Play with your kids and shed all inhibitions. Become a child in the company of kids as they give you back purest of pure expression of love and emotions.

19. Have gratitude to each everyone who has directly or indirectly helped you or contributed to your success. Do not forget your parents, grandparents, relatives, your immediate family, your friends and professional relationships.

20. Live within your means and be content with what you have got.

21. Pickup on new learning or skills everyday as life teaches you something every moment.

22. Find your purpose and meaning of life which may be different for everyone.

23. Accept change wholeheartedly. See positives in change.

24. Do not sit and attack with full vigour all your problems.

25. TRY YOGA AND MEDITATION.

26. Have right perception of the world.

27. Operate from the strength of wisdom and knowledge.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Saturday)

HEALTH PLANNING @ Physical Aspects (BIG HEALTH TRANSFORMATION IDEAS)

Planning Your Health to Remain at the Top of The Game Called Life. Have Clear Health Plan and Strategy for Superior Fitness.

BIG HEALTH TRANSFORMATION IDEAS

1. Frist commit to yourself that you want to have superior health. Let us be serious about it.

2 .Let this not be priority no. 2 and below in your list.

3. Once health is lost you cannot get it back. All the money, your powerful connections, your family or friends cannot help you get it back.

4. Consult a health expert or a health coach to help you design your healthy lifestyle.

5. Better health starts with better health information and better health assessment.

6. Have a clear health goal orientation with the desire to achieve superior health.

7. Take action here and now. Do not wait as your mind shall cheat you to believe the health can wait and other things are important.

8. Watch strictly what you eat.

9. Have a combination of exercise and rest at the same time. In exercise push your boundary.

10. Self-discipline is the heart and soul of a health plan. Commit to not break it.

11. Visualize that you shall have peak health and fitness very soon to motivate yourself.

12. Schedule your eating -Avoid sporadic munching. Avoid caffeine and too much of sugar as it shall effect your long term health.

13. Moderation of food and drink can take you in the zone called "Super fitness level"

14. Yoga, exercise, and walking are easily accessible tools kick start at a basic level before getting to advance level of health regime.

15. Treat mind muscle as any other part of body muscle. Relax your mind muscle and take a tiny break when you feel over-stressed.

16. Beware of negative people and thoughts. They drain your energy which eventually affects health.

17. Your attitude towards health shall determine what your health shall look like down the line.

18. Have positive health internal dialogue. It shall the metal design of our perception towards health.

19. Use positive health affirmations and internally repeat till it affects your each and every cell of the body.

20. Be enthusiastic in achieving your peak health. Let your health motivation not die.

21. Set health goals, not wishes.

22. Be in the company of health conscious people. Their outlook toward health rubs on you.

23. Do not have self- limiting thought process on health. Yes, it is just a matter of time when you reach peak level.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Friday)

PLANNING - BE THE EARLY RISER. INVEST IN WAKING UP EARLY WHICH SHALL ADD COUPLE OF MORE YEARS TO YOUR LIFE.

The latest survey on more than 100 CEO conclusively proofs why more than 99 % of CEO 'S are early risers.

PLANNING TIPS

1. Take the first step get out of the bed at any cost.

2. Successful people want to start before competitors star.

3. You have more time on hand to plan and quality time for work and family.

4. Sleep early to rise early.

5. Stick to your wake up time.

6. Build momentum and motivation to commit to yourself for early wake-up.

7. Fix the time to sleep and switch off lights.

8. Read something of your interest which shall take you to sleep faster. And you sleep with no personal worries.

9. Set an alarm.

10. Drink a glass of water.

11. Exercise and meditate.

12. Go for a walk and enjoy morning breeze.

13. Thank god.

14. Start the day with the huge positive frame of mind.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Sunday)

Working in a job or business without
any meaning and objective for only survival has no chance of survival.

So let us work for love of work nothing else. That itself shall put enough life and meaning into work.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Saturday)

Any Quest has to go through the journey of Deep, deeper and deepest levels of evaluation and understanding without which all decisions are going to
have some gaps which shall give you feeling of incompleteness at different stages of self-evolution and eventual decisions.

 

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Friday)

Real power is in restraint. That is the best way to deal with difficult emotions and situations.

Restraint, control makes difficult situations powerless.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Thursday)

All your enemies are actually part of GOD's plan to keep you in check and teach you lessons for life.

So by chance you happen to meet your not so dear enemy, just thank God instead of cursing your enemy.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Wednesday)

Let all action plans should be based on current situations not what could have happened if you had taken some other action .Because if you had taken 
those actions, you could never have reached current situations.

Try to find solutions based on what is possible today with more realistic and practical approach rather then
repenting over what was not done…

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Tuesday)

Pleasantness of body is called health, pleasantness of mind is called peace, pleasantness of soul is called bless.

TARGET ALL 3 ,No less then complete health, complete 
Peace and highest level of blissful state of soul.

Someone May ask whether it is possible. Let us atleast an honest try.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Monday)

Awaiting for some miracle to happen. 
God is waiting for your call. Then why delay.
Things do not manifest because we do not trust blessings of nature and god.

Demand miracle from god. This is contemporary model of conversation with god.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Sunday)

Let anything you speak go through these filters of 6 important aspects of conversation:

1.Is it so important to speak or without speaking it shall do?

2.why we want to speak?

3.what we want to speak?

4.can we avoid speaking?

5.will this conversation benefit someone?

6.will it be meaningful to speak?

IF U ARE SURE THAT AFTER THESE FILTERS, IT IS NOT NEEDED TO SPEAK, REMAIN SILENT and Cantered.

As sometimes the value of silence is 1000 times more then speaking on things not needed.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Saturday)

We need help of others not because we need it but we need it to get help in getting a whole fresh perspective about certain things.

So remain open to get someone's opinion which May open a whole new way of looking at things.

 

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Friday )

Love follows respect if you respect someone naturally love is bound to come to you.

In every relationship, RESPECT IS THE KEYWORD.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Thursday)

Just because someone does not react does not mean he or she does not notice or does not understand the intention and intent.

If someone is not reacting it is sign of maturity not weakness. So be careful of all your action.

Always even if someone watches or not, We should act with the highest level of integrity in your work.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Wednesday)

When did you last check your energy level?

Conserve your energy for meaningful things. Avoid
anything or any action which take away your energy as 
we have a long way to go and lot of unfinished objectives to be achieved in this stage of your life.

Do not at any cost get impacted by any energy draining things.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Tuesday)

Always tell yourself a positive story about yourself as mind is with all attention listening to you.

In case you have been telling negative story to your mind, correct it with all urgency.

Keep telling and hearing positive stories to get into the zone and mental frame for BIG things in life.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Monday)

Love yourself and love your life as 
we were born to love and be loved.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Saturday)

It makes sense and is logical to do what is right not what is easy.

All right things and eternal truths are relevant for all ages, society, and self.

Life is simply magic with no mental burden or guilt.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Friday)

Always surround yourself with people having big DREAMS and Life objectives as they shall work in your life as catalyst and mentors.

Every BIG dream needs a dreamer who takes his or hers dream very seriously, so seriously that his entire life revolves are that. Also that dream becomes part of his or hers central nervous system and then gets into his or hers bloodstream. Going forward separation between him and dream drops completely. It finally leads to become one him like 2 bodies and one soul.

Be generous and limitless in letting your dream fly high and higher keeping your feet firmly on the ground.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Thursday)

Check if you are living your life to the fullest.

First define what is the fullest life. Then what actions you need to take.

To live life to the fullest you need to perform each and every role given to you by god perfectly, so perfectly that even god would be surprised to know your skills and dedication.

  • 30 Nov -0001 (Wednesday)

Changing your perspective changes the way you look at people, situations, and life at large.

Good news is that not much effort is needed. You just have to open the door of your heart and mind.